Poverty of Attention

Reflecting on information overload, the power of storytelling, and making goodness impossible to ignore.

During our Archdiocesan Film Festival in the city, one of the priests who spoke in front of us shared thoughts about information and communication that stayed with me long after the event ended.
Here are some of the notes I wrote down from his talk.
He said that we live in a world overflowing with information.
But despite having more information than any generation before us, we now live in a poverty of attention.
That line immediately caught me.
Because it's true.
Our attention has become one of the most valuable resources in the modern world.
Every platform wants it.
Every algorithm fights for it.
Every creator competes for it.
And because of that, Father reminded us to be careful about what captures our attention because what captures our attention slowly shapes our perception of the world.
The things we repeatedly consume become the world we think exists.

He continued by saying that in today's world, anger is rewarded.
Cruelty is entertained.
Outrage spreads faster than understanding.
And honestly, I agree.
Algorithms don't necessarily reward truth.
They reward engagement.
And anger is engaging.
Fear is engaging.
Conflict is engaging.
Because of that, people slowly drift toward extreme positions.
Their biases get continuously reinforced until eventually they become loyal defenders of one side while becoming completely unwilling to even listen to another perspective.
At that point, discussion becomes impossible.
Everything becomes a battle.
Everything becomes us versus them.

Father also reminded us that lies can begin to sound true after enough repetition.
That line hurt because history has shown us countless examples of it.
If an idea is repeated enough times, eventually some people stop questioning it.
Sometimes people even begin treating it as historical fact.
Not because it is true.
But because it is familiar.
Repetition can be powerful.
Sometimes more powerful than evidence.

Another line that stayed with me was this:
Communication is about communion.
Communication is not simply transmitting information.
It is building understanding.
Building bridges.
Preventing division.
God communicates.
Creation itself is communication.
That idea fascinated me.
Because when communication disappears, assumptions take over.
And assumptions often become conflict.

Father also said something that I completely agree with:
People remember stories.
Whoever teaches people how to see the world shapes the way they think about it.
Stories shape culture.
Stories shape identity.
Stories shape nations.
Today it has become easier than ever to tell stories and spread information.
Yet somehow many stories remain untold.
The quiet stories.
The forgotten stories.
The stories of people who never had the opportunity to speak.
The stories of those who were ignored.
The stories of those who lost.

One line from Father Nathaniel particularly stayed with me:
"The Church does not lack truth. We simply lack storytellers."
That line hit hard.
Because maybe that is true not only for the Church but for many institutions.
Sometimes good people exist.
Sometimes truth exists.
Sometimes hope exists.
But nobody tells the story.
Nobody communicates it.
Nobody translates it into something people can understand and feel.
But at the same time, I found myself asking another question.
If the storytellers speak, will people listen?
Will people give them a chance?
Will people slow down long enough to hear stories that challenge their existing beliefs?
Or will algorithms drown them before they even begin?

At the end of his talk, Father left us with one final challenge:
"Drown the bad in an ocean of good. Make goodness impossible to ignore."
I liked that line.
Because maybe fighting darkness isn't always about attacking darkness.
Sometimes it's about creating so much goodness that darkness struggles to compete.
Of course, that sounds easier than it is.
Goodness spreads slower than outrage.
Kindness spreads slower than controversy.
Truth spreads slower than entertainment.
But maybe that doesn't make the effort any less important.

So after listening to Father Nathaniel speak, I left with one hope.
That even if it is difficult, we continue trying to make goodness impossible to ignore.
Not individually.
But together.
Because maybe goodness only becomes normal when enough people decide to practice it at the same time.
Maybe that is the communal cooperation we need.
Not only to fight corruption.
Not only to fight division.
But to make goodness the default setting of everyday life.

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  • Sat Jun 27 2026
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