Learning from Singaporean Mickey

I asked Mickey about his refrigerator (or "fridge" as they call it). I wondered if they collect refrigerator magnets like many Filipinos do. He said they don’t — their fridge is clean and free of decorations. Melvin agreed. I told them that in the Philippines, it’s common to bring home souvenirs or "pasalubong" from every trip.

They explained that Singaporeans are generally very practical. They don’t buy things they don’t need, and they maximize the value of their money. They don’t care much about decorations or even fashion. Unlike us, who sometimes splurge on expensive clothes we rarely use, they prefer buying simple, useful things that provide long-term value.

You can even see it in the way they dress — basic, clean, functional. Singapore's cost of living is high, so every expense matters. We’re lucky that Mickey still took the time to tour us around despite the high parking fees. I’m really grateful for the day.

Of course, I asked Mickey for some love advice.

He said, "You don’t just find the right one — you grow together. Love is a continuous process filled with trial and error." He told me that if a girl shows interest, pursue it. If not, don’t waste time. There are plenty of women out there, and it’s all part of exploring while you’re still young. No need to rush.

We also talked about Singapore's rules. You can’t buy a house unless you’re married or over 30. That’s why many Singaporeans live with their parents — it’s more economical. Hawker stalls are everywhere, but parking fees are too! Tourism helps boost their economy alongside strong customs and regulations.

Eventually, Mickey left us with Ken after a long day. We were supposed to go to Bukit Timah, but rain changed our plans. Instead, we roamed around Chinatown, then visited Marina Bay Sands Mall and Gardens by the Bay.

Funny thing — Mickey, a Singaporean, hadn’t even visited some of the places we went to. He said when he travel he prefers spending money on food and meaningful experiences rather than touristy attractions.

Lesson learned: Practicality over impulse. Spend on what matters — I’m taking that with me for my next trip.